Chances,choices and chemistry

Trays are a beautiful channel through which one can make may connections- they could be of any shape, size, form and weight but the weight they add to relationships is significant :) NOW how absurd can that get!

Think about it!

If you are a South Indian woman in the ripe marriageable age of 22+, a tray can b one of the significant stars that change your destiny especially if you want to follow the traditional path of finding joy in finding a partner through rituals :)

Yes, choices is all that one has to take- to either be the one holding the tray or not holding it- i wanna call this unique experience a 'tray session' though I haven't had more than a couple of them as some unforeseen circumstances put a sudden break to the significance of the tray... However, I can very well understand the circumstances, the pressure, the pleasantries and the flow of snacks and fruits that both the potential in law families have to become part of! In the drama of life, this is one of the most hilarious yet life altering experiences one can have...

A friend once told me that the best elimination question one could use was to say, 'Coffee/Tea or me?' :):)

If the guy on the other side of the tray didn't give u those weird frowns that make him look older or severe and has that sheepish silly grin, hes someone you should probably have a conversation with :):)

Well! now about the chances bit- probability is one of my favorite subjects in Maths- how does one know if the probability of an event is '0' or '1' especially in the case of finding the right life partner? Guess the best of mathematicians would blame it on the stars :)

Now back to the tray- should one wear this color, those clothes, talk about that subject or should one be quiet, concerned and waiting for the other to start of a conversation? Should one shortlist someone on their profile, more a CV of studied here, is working there and looks relatively close to that wonderfully well made GK Vale picture is upto individuals.... i.e. where the chemistry bit works- u just know at one go that a certain combination works better than the rest and then one also knows that if things really have to end up being a fairy tale the other two Cs become more important- Commitment and Compassion...

One has to be compassionate to tolerate another's idiosyncrasies, a need to laugh out loud like a hyena, a need to call close friends nick names and probably flirt with them, a need to bring the table down by one's clumsiness, a need to go bersek with one's loud dressing, or a need to just get soooo quiet that the silence may stifle..one cant walk with or without the tray hehehe if one cant wait for life to unfold the beauty of togetherness :)